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Bemus Level resident Tim Grace was meant to be aspect of the higher than team that arrived at the summit of Mount Kilimanjaro in June 2019, but he passed absent on the 1st day of the climb. To honor his memory, the trekkers exhibit a Josh Allen jersey Grace had planned to have on upon reaching the top rated of the mountain.


Tim Grace loved Josh Allen ahead of the child quarterback even threw his initially NFL pass.

In simple fact, the Bemus Point resident walked into the staff keep at A single Bills Generate in Orchard Park in the operate-up to the 2018 time, found a No. 17 jersey on the rack, paid for it and then walked happily out the doorway. Moments later, he set it on and instantly posed for a photo, his arms elevated towards the heavens, the price tag tag nonetheless hanging from the still left sleeve.

The smile that lined his deal with said it all.

About 10 months afterwards — June 2019 — Tim folded that exact same Allen jersey into his vacation bag for a as soon as-in-a-life span vacation to Africa where he and his wife, Kathy, had been likely to embark on a 7-day trek to the best of Mount Kilimanjaro, the world’s greatest absolutely free-standing mountain.

“His plan was to don that jersey when he summited,” Kathy mentioned.

Tragically, Tim, a area optometrist, never ever realized that dream. The 64-year-old father of Rachael and Alex was stricken and died in the early night of June 4, 2019, Working day 1 of the trek.

“He was initial course and he lived his previous identify,” family close friend and Bemus Position neighbor Cindy Aronson explained. “‘With grace’ is the best description for how he normally taken care of other individuals.”

Tanzanian natives Gabriel and Gideon and associates of the tour team assisted Kathy back down the mountain to a resort wherever she stayed for a week prior to returning to the United States.

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“All I could consider of was Tim staying at the leading of the mountain,” Kathy recalled very last week as she sat in the dwelling home of her residence that overlooks Chautauqua Lake. Although deep in her views at that time, she still experienced the presence of mind to open up Tim’s travel bag, which Gabriel had returned alongside with the rest of the Graces’ belongings, and, guaranteed more than enough, the Josh Allen jersey was suitable on top rated.

Mentioned Kathy: “I seemed at Gabriel and I said, ‘Can you however get this back up (to the summit)?’”

Gabriel answered in the affirmative and then promised that he would consider a picture of the No. 17 jersey with the traveling social gathering and e mail her the impression. To be specified not to get rid of the contact info, Kathy wrote her electronic mail handle on the inside of the jersey collar.

“I in no way expected to get the jersey back,” Kathy admitted.

But in a journey that went from “bliss, to tragedy, to peace, to magnificence and humanity,” Kathy has received almost nothing but kindness in return.

A week later on and lastly again at property, Kathy uncovered an e-mail in her in-box from Gabriel, the tour guideline she refers to as an “angel.” Attached was the photo of the men standing with the No. 17 at the summit. 1 of the gentlemen in the picture was Ben Lodge, a Canton, Massachusetts native, a single of a pair of New England Patriots’ supporters in the team.

Contemplate the irony of that. A lot more than 30,000 people a calendar year from all more than the world trek Kilimanjaro, so what are the possibilities that the Payments and the Patriots would be brought together there?

“It is tough to describe the feelings working by means of me as we posed for that photo with Tim’s jersey,” Ben explained in an e-mail. “We experienced just used five and a 50 percent times getting on a single of the tallest mountains in the environment. I was exhausted from the hike, but the emotion of accomplishment and awe-putting views from the prime of the mountain gave me the electrical power to celebrate with our team.

“We had prayed for Kathy and Tim every day right before our meals so they had been with us the whole journey, but when we pulled out Tim’s Josh Allen jersey in front of the Mount Kilimanjaro indicator it truly hit me with a wave of feelings. … Keeping his jersey at the prime of the mountain loaded me with unhappiness for the tragedy that happened, grateful for the strength that this story gave our group to arrive at the best, and aid realizing that Tim was hunting down on us and we experienced accomplished his lifelong aspiration as a household.”

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By virtue of their 48-19 victory above Denver last Saturday, the Expenditures claimed their very first AFC East title in 25 several years. For his portion, Allen finished 28 of 40 passes for 359 yards and two touchdowns. He also ran for two additional scores in what has come to be a person of the greatest seasons by a quarterback in franchise record.

A target of criticism for his often inconsistent enjoy in his 1st two several years, like a wild-card playoff meltdown in opposition to Houston very last time, Allen has been just one of the NFL’s finest players this year and finds himself squarely in the middle of the Most Valuable Participant dialogue.

Tim, Kathy managed, supported the powerful-armed QB via thick and slender, nevertheless, and would have been rejoicing just after the Bills’ division-clinching victory around the Broncos previous weekend. Period ticket holders due to the fact Jim Kelly’s first yr in Buffalo, Tim and Kathy had observed the ideal and worst of the Bills because 1986 and have bundled Rachael, 29, and Alex, 26, in their passionate aid of the staff.

So think about how Kathy and the youngsters felt when a deal arrived in the mail in mid-June 2019, significantly less than two months just after Tim handed absent. In it was the Josh Allen jersey, which was signed by the trekkers.

“I just needed a photo to demonstrate he was up there,” Kathy stated. “That’s all I needed. When I received the jersey back I could not imagine it, and when I noticed they signed it, it was so psychological for me, mainly because that’s who we were being with and Tim should have been up there.”

Added Lodge, the trekker and Patriots’ fan: “Kathy and Tim were both a section of our team. … We really felt like they were being element of our very little relatives and we preferred to make absolutely sure they understood they were with us in spirit alongside the full journey, and at the leading of the mountain when we finally built it.”

And though her spouse of 31 yrs, wasn’t physically at the summit, Kathy thinks the sequence of events that have occurred in the last 18 months are not just coincidence. So when Alex suggested they examine the chance of getting a Josh Allen signature on the again of the jersey, effectively, that was all it took.

“All I keep in mind indicating,” Kathy recalled, “was, ‘OK. I can do just about anything now.’”

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In early July 2019, Kathy stopped to clean up out Tim’s business office at Chautauqua Eyecare on West 3rd Road in Jamestown. It was there that she observed an aged letter from the Expenses regarding renewing their year tickets.

“I was not sure if he experienced bought them for 2019,” Kathy stated, “so I identified as the number on the letter.”

Eventually, she gained a return get in touch with from Danielle Gaddis, an account company coordinator who grew up in Lakewood.

“She was awesome,” Kathy explained. “I spelled out the predicament to her. She was so form and useful, and I just felt a connection with her instantly. Just after I received off the cellphone, I obtained to wondering, ‘I come to feel I could notify her the tale and see if, possibly, Josh Allen could indication the jersey.’”

So on July 15, 2019, Kathy put a call to A person Charges Travel as she sat on a park bench in Brooklyn in the course of a stop by to see Rachael, who has lived in the Huge Apple for the last six decades. Danielle, it turned out, was a lot more than happy to assist.

“Marlon Kerner is our director of participant engagement and alumni,” Danielle reported in an email earlier this week. “He’s our direct backlink to the players. I knew Kathy didn’t want to be without having the jersey, so I had to think of the very best way to get it specifically to Josh without having her acquiring to be without it for extensive.

“Marlon was at coaching camp (at St. John Fisher Higher education) and he agreed to support me out. Kathy drove the jersey up to me at A single Bills Travel, I drove it to Rochester, handed it off to Marlon and waited until eventually right after practice where by Josh signed it in the dorms. Then Marlon gave it back again to me, I drove it back to Buffalo and Kathy arrived and picked it up.”

With the trekkers’ autographs on the front and a beloved quarterback autograph on the back, the jersey hangs — framed and matted — in Kathy’s dwelling space.

“When I was 8, 9 and 10 a long time previous,” explained Alex, who will work for Northwest Price savings Bank in Buffalo, “we’d usually go to Buffalo Costs schooling camp, and one particular point my dad liked was sitting down around the fence, buying me up and finding autographs of all these gamers. It’s variety of humorous how it will come total circle, with Josh Allen signing the jersey that my dad required to carry to the best of the mountain.”

There have been other moments of serendipity, too.

As it turns out, Danielle’s mom and dad are Dan and Sue Moran of Lakewood. Dan just took place to be one of Tim’s sufferers. Moreover, Bills’ lovers Larry and Lorraine Diggs, mates of Tim and Kathy, fulfilled Danielle in 2015 when Buffalo played Jacksonville … in London.

“Talk about a compact globe,” Danielle said of the probability meeting at a British pub. “I truly didn’t imagine it until eventually (Kathy) despatched me a photo of all of us.”

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Times ahead of leaving for Africa 18 months ago, Kathy, her sister, Debbie Griffin, and Kathy’s mates, Cindy Aronson, Mary Grace Guarino, Lorraine Diggs and Linda Lampack went on a hike at Allegheny Condition Park.

In the course of the excursion, the gals gave Kathy a medallion as properly as a bag that browse, respectively, ‘Never Give Up” and “Kathy believes she could, so she did.”

“I had both equally of individuals issues all the way up (Kilimanjaro) with me,” Kathy reported. “I under no circumstances recognized how symbolic that medallion was.”

So as she celebrates Christmas, Kathy reported the assistance she has received from her close friends and group has been a exclusive present that has presented her “peace.”

“I think you have to embrace anything all over you, you know? By no means get rid of hope, never ever give up, be open up to individuals,” she reported. “That’s big. With almost everything occurring now, I really do not want people today to reduce sight of that — the goodness in the environment, simply because I actually feel that way. I assume that’s what keeps individuals going.”

A deep playoff operate by the Payments or — dare we say it? — a Tremendous Bowl victory with Josh Allen main the way would be a fitting end to this story.

“There’s pretty much not one more human being on this earth or one more quarterback I’d want to see hold up the (Lombardi) Trophy than Josh Allen,” Alex mentioned. “It would suggest all the things in the total full world. It would just complete my daily life, actually. … I know my dad would be so joyful and smiling down.”

Even though Josh Allen wasn’t accessible for remark, Kathy claimed she despatched him a photo of the team at the summit of Kilimanjaro final 12 months. It was her way of thanking the quarterback for signing his identify on the jersey to honor Tim’s memory.

What did Josh also produce on it?

“God Bless” and “Go Costs.”



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