Coronavirus: Holiday recollections aid with COVID-19 melancholy

As a caregiver for a bedbound affected person, I know that a good way to get depressed is by obsessing about issues I’m not obtaining to do any longer.

That checklist is a great deal more time these days for several of us, thanks to the COVID-19 pandemic.

It can be a authentic downer to consider about exciting things to do we have loved just before but simply cannot do now: Vacations, travel, holiday events, concert events, fundraisers, group gatherings, weddings, massive birthday get-togethers, even lunches with a bunch of close friends.

All those people pleasurable, sociable pursuits are off the calendar now for all of us for the foreseeable foreseeable future.


But you know what? I’m fantastic with it.

I have spouse Richard here with me, and despite his ongoing healthcare impairments, what motivates me are his radiant, loving smile, quirky feeling of humor, his chortle and expanding listing of bodily achievements.

What else keeps me upbeat and full speed forward?

Rather than concentrating on what I simply cannot do now, it is a great deal additional satisfying getting a psychological jaunt back to very similar points I’ve carried out in the earlier.

As I prepped our 2020 Thanksgiving food for 4, and deeply inhaled the wondrous blended scents of pumpkin pie spice, turkey, cider, poultry seasoning, garlic and sherry, I laughed, remembering a catering desk board our huge group shared in the 1990s.

We weren’t in a lavishly adorned dining space. As a substitute, our holiday celebration was in the parking good deal of the Tin Village catering kitchen we’d constructed Purple Moose Cookie Co. is there now.

We had been eating there fairly than at home mainly because, as we ate, we had been also have been diligently checking the roasting of about two dozen Thanksgiving meals we’d supply to other people afterwards in the day.

It was tons of entertaining, if busy. Considering the fact that then, I’ve learned that it is virtually as a great deal do the job — and enjoyment — to make dinner for four as for 24. Having said that, there are not practically as several dishes to clean!

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This is one of the calendar year-spherical Christmas trees in the property of Cambrian columnist Kathe Tanner and partner Richard Tanner, evoking pleased recollections of holiday trees in the previous. She redecorates their indoor trees to go well with the seasons. Kathe Tanner

Other sights on Thanksgiving weekend obtained me wondering about other wonderful getaway occasions I have had, appreciating people memories, and anticipating the chance to make new kinds together now.

For instance, watching the modified Macy’s Thanksgiving Working day parade on television took me back to my New York childhood, attending the parade with my household and watching the parade on Tv set every other calendar year that I could.

This year’s parade, with its vignettes from Broadway performs, also reminded me of on-phase performances I have seen in The City and elsewhere: Performs, operas, stand-up comedians, symphony live shows, melodramas, ballets and a lot more, productions large and modest, major-time and modest-town.

And viewing 1 Macy’s parade entry built me recall, as I do each and every year, a specific yearly show we loved that constantly conjured up Christmastime illustrations or photos — viewing the Rockettes dance troupe reform in full, precision method for the duration of their Vacation Spectaculars.

Their tin soldier parade general performance this year was a bit disappointing, devoid of the endorphin-developing, large-kicking coordinated chorus line at the finish. But maybe that extra effort would have been much too draining, considering the fact that they were all donning masks.

What else have I been I enjoying vicariously by means of my memories this holiday getaway period?

• Viewing snow on the Temperature Channel reminded me of “sledding” down my grandparents’ driveway slope on a trash-can lid, of ice skating on a frozen Colorado pond and of riding horseback into Yosemite Nationwide Park in a snowstorm, before the common community was allowed in there in the winter.

• Opening an on the web Advent calendar sent by dear friends Monthly bill and Shirley Bianchi (fantastic entertaining on, and enjoying an imaginative bodily Advent calendar stuffed with a jam-a-working day —anybody for lemon-yuzu or raspberry-lychee? — despatched by a different expensive close friend, Linda Nakamura. People built me believe of holiday break church companies I have attended, in numerous different religions.

• In 2000, remaining 1 of 96 fortunate, dressed-to-the-nines people attending the Friends of Hearst Castle’s 1st Holiday break Feast in the historic residence museum’s Refectory, and going up into the musicians’ loft to just take a image of the festive scene below. (The Pals team is now identified as The Basis at Hearst Castle.)

• Numerous stay-streamed tree-lighting ceremonies evoked childhood visions of the huge conifer that magically appeared in my grandparents’ home on Xmas morning, reducing down our tree in the snow, viewing the Rockefeller Centre tree light up and our yearlong decorated trees now.

Rose-coloured glasses? Maybe. Much too Pollyanna for you? Probably. But upcoming time the pandemic restrictions get you down, try out a minimal dose of on the lookout back to superior love the present and foresee the long term with pleasure.

Drag out those photos. Reminisce alongside one another. Laugh.

Perhaps it will aid.

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Kathe Tanner has been crafting about the individuals and places of SLO County’s North Coast given that 1981, initially as a columnist and then also as a reporter. Her career has provided stints as a bakery operator, public relations director, radio host, trail guidebook and jewelry designer. She has been a resident of Cambria for much more than four many years, and if it is happening in city, Kathe knows about it.